Did you see this "I am Cait" episode over the summer? In "What's in a Name" an FTM who hasn't legally changed his name to Ethan (I have a nephew named Ethan :)) spoke of his being misgendered by cops when his gender identity didn't match his id/driver's license.
Below is an excerpt of the transcript:
Ethan: When I interact with the police, they're... they're pretty cool to me all the way up until they ask me my legal name, 'cause I haven't gotten that changed yet. And then, all of a sudden, they just keep calling me "ma'am." Like, "Ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, miss, ma'am." Like, do I look like a ma'am? And then I get all those messed-up questions. Like, you don't need to know what... what I have underneath my clothes.
I've been trying to contact the Dayle Mc Intosh Disabled Resource Center in Garden Grove CA to help me move out of my mom's new home (we're moving this weekend) and into a home of my own. I used my self-identifying name Mel (it is a shortened of my female birth/legal name, I can't legally change my name to Mel yet) but I'm concerned about not being able to get help from them, is there a way I can use the name Mel (even if when it's just addressing me) and still get help moving out of mom's home and get an advocate/payee?
Tomorrow some workers from Lowes are going to install a new heating/air conditioning system in our attic and I'm concerned about passing while getting into the shower(the access to the attic is between my room and the bathroom). I recycle cans for money and I can't wait until very late to shower let alone until the next day because I would be extremely dirty and smelly when I return home going to the dinner table in that condition is uncomfortable and the place would smell like me!.
What can I say and/or do to them to get them to not to look while I'm getting into the shower (Wearing a towel won't cut it, I'd have to cover both top and bottom , and a it's too late to get a bathrobe)?
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Just trying to help my fellow brothers out :)
Hello my fellow fabulous femme, fem, effdminate, dandy, and otherwise fantastic fellows!
I am a transgenderqueer femme guy, I hope to go on T one day but am going to have to wait. For now, I do what I can. Soon I will have a binder! And I am trying to change my wardrobe.
My main issue is I HATE HATE HATE most of the men's section. So boring! So drab! Some of the t-shirts can be nice, and binder or otherwise I will grab close-fitting ones. But I require more professional clothing for work, so t-shirts are right out!
Am I forever doomed to purchase my tops from the section marked 'ladies?' Not that I have a HUGE problem with that, I will do what I must, buuut... isn't there anywhere I can get effeminate, feminine tops and shirts from a men's section or store? That I can wear to work? So tired of my choices being... collared shirt, collared shirt, collared shirt...
I love alternative style clothes, but my city is seriously lacking in goth shops for example. I try thrift stores and hit the same issue, rows upon rows of tshirts, sweaters, and collared shirts all with the same cookie-cutter plan. :(
heyo, friendos. it doesn't look like this community is super active anymore but, on the off chance someone comes snooping around, I thought I'd say hello anyway. I'm maxwell. seventeen and pre-everything, very selectively out to the people in my life. if anyone's game to give/get support or just chat, don't hesitate to drop a line or two.